Life is in your hands

 Do you struggle with motivation and energy?  How do you stay motivated in a time where you have to stay at home, not have more then 5 -10 friends or close contacts and practise social distansing? I find it harder and harder, in the beginning of this world wide pandemic I was all fired up in a way. I wanted to be part of the solution (I still do) but when there are so many who brakes the rules, have big parties and don't keep there distance I'm thinking "what's the point?" There has to be point ... doesen't it? I manage to keep my energy level pretty high at my day job, where me and two others are in charge of all protection gear for our whole commune. We have fun at work and with so many people being sick of the covid virus in nursing homes we have so much to do all the time. I'm not saying it's good that people are sick, I'm saying that we don't have time to feel down. When I get home it's different.  It's easier to stay energetic and...

Whether you believe in God, the Universe, Nature, Karma or Divine interference you know that you have to believe and have fate.Fate is everything, without fate there’s no reason to believe. I love the story in about Peter Pan and his fairy’s. When a child stop believing a fairy dies. Maybe that’s why the old Norse God’s don’t exist anymore, no one believes in them ... I believe there is something greater than ourselves. I believe there are forces that has our backs when we put fate in it. I also believe that the forces are working for you whether you believe in them or not, but with fate you will get better results because you know how the forces can be of service to you. I found this story of belief, it’s actually a description on the existence of God, but it works for all unseen forces. Read this and start believing there’s better things to come and not everything needs to be visual to be real. In a mother’s womb were two babies. One asked the other:  “Do you believe in life afte...

Are you one of these people who takes on everything? Whenever a friend or family member needs something you jump on board and do what you can to help out? This is actually a good quality to have, but you need to know where to draw the line! Don’t jump on board if you’re helping out so your friend can avoid something that frighten him/her or makes them uncomfortable. Be a true friend and help them help themselves. Let them face this fear and do what makes them uncomfortable, there’s way more value in that then when you do things for them. Also this will be a relief for you and your friend in the future, now your friend can handle this task on his/her own and you don’t have to. Make a priority of your own time and help out in the best way for your future and your friends and family’s future. Helping others are important, but help them in a way that will help them for a lifetime!

Excuse me Unskyld Meg Jeg Beklager Lo siento Waan ka xumahay There’s a million ways to apologize and it’s always appreciated. But why is it so hard? Why do our hands shake and voice tremble when we have to say "I’m sorry". Why is it that we all want to hear it but no body wants to say it. Everyone can mess up and make an complete fool of themselves and the one thing that saves you is the apology! Did you lie? Did you make a terrible mistake? Did you raise your voice to someone? Did you make an assumption that was wrong? Apologize!! Say I’m sorry! I messed up!  Please forgive me!!

At this time in life and the strange time we're living in now, it's normal to feel all kinds of feelings. Some will feel frustrated and going stir crazy staying home all the time. Some are using this time to relax and do all the things they don't get to do when the "rat-race" is on. Like watching Netflix, spending quality time with their kids, cleaning out the garage and so on. Others are thriving in this time of opportunities and time given to do exactly what they never had time to do before. They are now creating their dream life from scratch. Whatever you decide to do in this day and age is up to you and whatever you decide is good. As long as you are at peace with your choice it doesn't matter what it is. You are the creator and the one and only who knows exactly what is best for you. I have had coaches that has told me that if I don't want to do this or that I'm just not committed to making the changes I want. What they don't realize is th...

Being in a relationship with someone who's afraid of missing out afraid of not having the best. Someone who believes that someone else might be better for me, is this what I really want is this enough. What if that one can give me more children, more money, more prosperity. How do you survive in such relationship? Do you stay and work things out, do you convince this person that you are the one, nothing better can come to you. Do you constantly prove to this person that being grateful for what you  have will bring you more to be grateful for. Are you afraid of losing this person to another better version of you? All these questions have I been asking myself for the last few years being in a long distance relationship. I have seen it all, lies, cheating, stealing and convincing. There's so much work in a relationship that's "normal" why put in the extra effort in a long distance relationship. You have the power to end it all just by hanging up the phone...

How to live in a long distance relationship. Some say it can't be done, it will never work and that is true for them. It's not necessarily true for you, it definitely wasn't true for me. There are many differences in a long distance relationship and keep in mind that one of you where in holiday mode when you met. That being said most people are different on holiday and in everyday life, so if you are the one who was traveling at the time this relationship started you are the one that changes the most when the distance is greatest. So when the other person is getting upset with you and telling you you are different or that you have changed, that is probably true without you being aware that it is. When on a holiday ad in the presence of the person you want to be with everything is relaxed and sweet. You have all the time in the world and you are just enjoying this state of mind and not considering that this will change as soon as you get your butt back home. You also h...

Starting fresh Sometimes you just have to face facts and realize that no matter how much you want something to work, it just won't. I'm not saying you should give up, because quitting is never an option, but when something does not work you have to change your approach. I have realised that after trying and trying to do something in a certain way, it's not giving me the results that I want, so I have to change my approach. Change is good Knowing your numbers and being flexible enough to change is key ingredients. I know it can be frustrating to watch as someone else in your industry makes it big and when you do the exact same thing it's just not working out for you. It might be that you don't have the right vehicle and that this is not your passion. Not my passion I know that Network marketing is not for me, I started out because I saw there was a lot of money involved and it looked easy. My mentores told me to focus on helping my team members with making mo...