Life is in your hands

Are you one of these people who takes on everything? Whenever a friend or family member needs something you jump on board and do what you can to help out? This is actually a good quality to have, but you need to know where to draw the line! Don’t jump on board if you’re helping out so your friend can avoid something that frighten him/her or makes them uncomfortable. Be a true friend and help them help themselves. Let them face this fear and do what makes them uncomfortable, there’s way more value in that then when you do things for them. Also this will be a relief for you and your friend in the future, now your friend can handle this task on his/her own and you don’t have to. Make a priority of your own time and help out in the best way for your future and your friends and family’s future. Helping others are important, but help them in a way that will help them for a lifetime!

Excuse me Unskyld Meg Jeg Beklager Lo siento Waan ka xumahay There’s a million ways to apologize and it’s always appreciated. But why is it so hard? Why do our hands shake and voice tremble when we have to say "I’m sorry". Why is it that we all want to hear it but no body wants to say it. Everyone can mess up and make an complete fool of themselves and the one thing that saves you is the apology! Did you lie? Did you make a terrible mistake? Did you raise your voice to someone? Did you make an assumption that was wrong? Apologize!! Say I’m sorry! I messed up!  Please forgive me!!

The time to take responsibility for your actions and sort out and reach out to those you hurt ... when do you have to take adult choices and act your age? We all make mistakes and hurt people in the proses of finding our tru self. We all make some bad choices and it can feel hard to get control of the situation. It’s not easy to apologize and admit to the wrongs you have done. It’s not easy to own up to the fact that what you believed to be the right decision at the time turned out not to be the correct way to handle it after all. At some point in time, and the sooner the better, you have to pick up that phone and do the uncomfortable thing.  When all the ugly is dealt with and all the apologizes are said the healing process can begin. It’s not going to be smooth and easy. It’s not going to be quick and pain free. But it can be rewarding and it definitely will let you move over to the other side where you no longer have to live with the feeling of guilt. So what’s the right time? When