Personal Development
The area of personal development is never really a finished chapter. This is an ongoing process for as long as you live. You are in constant change and you keep evolving into a better person, a better coworker and a better parent/lover or child.
What you want to start with is recognizing how you talk to yourself. Are you constantly criticising yourself, or are you telling yourself that you are good enough?
Take a deep breath and listen to your thoughts, what is it telling you?
This "voice" is either saying; what do you really think you can accomplish here?
Or the "voice" is saying; so what if you look crazy to others, go for what you want!
When you recognize the sound of that "voice" and the tone it's using towards you, you can control it. You can take the "victim mode" and turn it into "creative mode" Anything you are given in life; abuse, neglect, infidelity, etc... You can turn it around and ask; where's my lesson in this? How can I make something great out of this?
There will always be parts of yourself you can improve, because when you have reached your first goal it's in human nature to set a new goal. And to reach that one you have to grow into this new person that is accomplishing that goal.
You learn and grow or you wither and die, it's nature not a choice.
What you want to start with is recognizing how you talk to yourself. Are you constantly criticising yourself, or are you telling yourself that you are good enough?
Take a deep breath and listen to your thoughts, what is it telling you?
This "voice" is either saying; what do you really think you can accomplish here?
Or the "voice" is saying; so what if you look crazy to others, go for what you want!
When you recognize the sound of that "voice" and the tone it's using towards you, you can control it. You can take the "victim mode" and turn it into "creative mode" Anything you are given in life; abuse, neglect, infidelity, etc... You can turn it around and ask; where's my lesson in this? How can I make something great out of this?
There will always be parts of yourself you can improve, because when you have reached your first goal it's in human nature to set a new goal. And to reach that one you have to grow into this new person that is accomplishing that goal.
You learn and grow or you wither and die, it's nature not a choice.
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