Surround yourself with good and positive

Does it serve you?

The best thing you can do for yourself is to surround yourself with good and positive people. Think about what you want out of life. Think about your dreams and goals. What serves you and what helps you to reach this ... Your goals should contain your financial goal, your relationship goal and your career goal. In every activity and in every habit ask yourself "does this serve me and my goals. Will this move me closer to reaching my goal?" These are the questions you should ask yourself for every interaction in your life. If you spend a lot of time and energy into reaching your goals, you don't want to tear everything down because of that one friend who leaves you feeling drained and fills your mind with negative emotions. The law of attraction works with your emotions and your actions, so you want to be inlined and in tuned. There has to be consistency in your actions and feelings. You get what you're feeling about, not so much what you're thinking about.

Good friends, bad energy?

I'm sure you have great friends, friends that have been your friend for years. But every time you have talked to them you are left with a bad feeling. You feel drained and your mind is filled with negativity, negative thoughts and negative emotions. It's normal to feel loyal to these people, you feel like you owe them something and you can't imagine "breaking up" with them. You don't have to breakup with all your friends who are having a rough time, but you might want to consider if some of these friendships are really friendships or if this is infact a one way ship ... I have a few close and good friends and they are my friends in good and bad. And I have some friends that are only my friend in bad. By that I mean that the only time I hear anything from them is when they are having a bad time, something awful happened to them.The rest of the time, when everything is fabulous in there lives I do not exist. When you reach out, there's no one there, but when drama comes to town this friend have no shame and calls you just to unload all the bad things that has happened. That's a one way ship not a friendship.

Keepers and leapers

When in search for you goals and dreams you want to hang around and surround yourself with good and positive people who are on the same path as you. Seek out some keepers, someone who's ready to take a leap and make that change that needs to be made to get you one step closer. People get stuck and sometimes they refuse to see the way out. They stay on the sideline and watch what's going on, have an opinion about everyone else, but they are not ready to make the change themselves. So surround yourself with likeminded people that will push you towards, not pull you away. The leapers are the keepers that will help you along the way. Being an entrepreneur and in a major life changing position you need someone who can push you when things get tough. There are plenty of fearful people out there who will tell you to relax and stop what you are doing. to them it seams to tough and they are scared you are going to lose. Don't let there fright stop you from risking looking stupid and reaching for your goals.

You are what you eat

It's true that you are what you eat and you become what you feed your mind. Everything you put in your body and mind is enabling or disabling you. To have a healthy body you eat healthy food and you strengthen it by exercising. Your mind have the same needs. You feed it with knowledge on positive mindset and powerful skills and you exercise your mind with visualizing and meditation. You physical strength and mental strength goes hand in hand, so when you exercise your body you are also strengthening your mind. Your mind is powered by the movement of your body and the impressions and the material you feed it from books, videos and audios. Be aware of what you read and watch on TV. If you can avoid it stop watching the news everyday, start reading biographies and books on building skills. Learn from other people and be in a state of harvesting information.

Keeping strong and standing alone

To keep moving towards what you want and doing whatever it takes to get it, you can feel a little lonely. The life of entrepreneurs is lonely until you have reached where you want to be. You can seek out other entrepreneurs in your area and get together to mingle, share experiences and just hang out. This can be very valuable for you, for the people you seek out and the people who will discover you down the road. Everyone is sitting at home in front of their computer all day long working on there online business. Forgetting that having a social life is important, but not any kind of social life. Iit has to be with the people who are building a mindset like yours. There's no point in having a social life with skeptics and doubters, you want to have inspiring conversations, learning new things and making connections with people who can take you to the next level. Start searching and reaching out to people and you will notice the love and support you will get from total strangers are beyond anything you ever got from your nearest and dearest.

Support

The support needed to stay on course as an entrepreneur can only be given by someone who understands you. This is probably not your friend who tried to run an online business 5 years ago that didn't make it. It's probably not coming from your friend to scared to change anything or take any kind of risk emotionally or financially. You will however get the support you need from total strangers, the entrepreneurs who knows what you are going through, who knows that if you just stick to you why and visualize your goal, you will make it and they are there to cheer you on. They will provide knowledge, tips and tricks on what to do and what not to do. They will have your back and give you a heads up if something is off track or a link does not work. They will guide you towards their favorite groups, books and masterminds. Soac it up and get involved. Join a mastermind and do some online courses, there are so much knowledge out there you can tile the whole world with it.

To sum it up

My point in this is that to grow, prosper and become what it is that you want, you have to surround yourself with what it is that you are trying to attract. To attract good and positive you have to surround yourself with good and positive. You can not attract positivity and prosperity if you surround yourself with negativity and fear mentality. The road to success if just as much about what you gain as about what you're willing to give up. You might have to say goodbye to those who are holding you back because of their own fears. You might have to quit a job, move to a different place or even end a relationship. I don't know what you have going on in your life, but the things that are stopping you from moving forward to reaching your goal might be some of the things you have to give up. You might have to give up the feeling of safety for a while and you might have to go to bed hungry, but this is all part of letting go.

Analogy

Look at moving towards and working for your goal as a trip. You have to huge suitcases to drag with you and they are filled up with a lot of old stuff from your past. You have limiting beliefs in there, you have good friends and bad friends, family and relationship, you have job-safety-mentality, positivity and negativity all crammed up in those two suitcases. To reach your goal and end destination you have to let go of one because the things you want, success, prosperity, traveling, luxury and abundance is in a brand new fancy suitcase and you can only carry two. So witch suitcase are you going to let go of to get the new suitcase that has everything you ever dreamed of?

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